Hypnosis to Drink Less

You are not an "alcoholic". The word does not apply to you, and you are probably right. But you have noticed things.

The Friday drink that became the Wednesday one. The bottle opened between two people on a Sunday and finished without thinking. The moment, on getting home, when you open the fridge before you have even taken your coat off.

Nothing has broken, nothing has been lost, nobody has said anything. That is exactly what makes it hard to look at: there is no event, just a very gentle slope.

A glass on a kitchen counter in late-afternoon light

What it feels like to drink a bit too much, a bit too often

Before you read on.

This page is for people who want to drink less and who are not dependent on alcohol. If you drink every day, do not cut down abruptly on your own: in someone who is dependent, a rapid drop can trigger a withdrawal syndrome, which needs medical supervision.

Talk to your doctor first if any of these apply to you: daily drinking, tremors, sweating, nausea or strong anxiety when you do not drink or when you cut down, needing a drink in the morning, a previous seizure or episode of confusion when stopping, taking benzodiazepines or sleeping pills, pregnancy, any current medication.

The mornings after cost more than they used to. And that small negotiation comes back every evening: not tonight, well, all right, just one.

The fact that you are asking yourself the question is already information. People who are not troubled by alcohol do not ask it.

What does cutting down actually mean?

Three different situations often go by the same name, and confusing them leads to aiming at the wrong goal.

  • Risky use is drinking that has no visible consequence yet but does carry health risks. No symptoms, no dependence: that is the ground this page covers.
  • Harmful use already has consequences on health, work, family or safety, without dependence being necessarily present.
  • Dependence adds a physical and psychological dimension: loss of control over the amount, compelling cravings, tolerance, and signs of withdrawal on stopping. It is a matter for addiction medicine, and the goal is discussed there with a doctor. If that is you, the useful page is Hypnosis for Alcohol Withdrawal.

Where to set the line?

We do not set it for you and we publish no thresholds of our own. Low-risk drinking guidelines exist, set by health authorities and revised regularly: in France by Santé publique France (in French), in Canada by the Canadian Centre on Substance Use and Addiction, whose guidance was revised recently in a more cautious direction. Reading them is worth more than relying on the average of the people around you, which is always reassuring and rarely relevant.

Cut down or stop?

Both goals are legitimate in contemporary addiction medicine, and the second is not morally superior to the first. Where there is dependence, abstinence is generally the safest goal and that is what practice guidelines recommend; but it is not the only recognised path, and those same guidelines ask that a person's own goal be accepted rather than imposed on them. What is not negotiable lies elsewhere: whatever the goal, it is discussed with a doctor before anything is changed. And we sell moderation to nobody as a universal answer.

Some signs call for medical advice before you do anything.

Drinking to take away tremors or morning anxiety, being unable to stop once the first drink is taken, having had seizures or an episode of confusion when stopping, being on medication, being pregnant. These deserve to be assessed by a doctor. Any decision about your treatment belongs to the doctor who prescribed it.

What regular drinking costs day to day

A wine bottle and an empty glass on a side table at the end of the day

What weighs in this grey zone shows little from the outside. There is sleep, first: alcohol sends you to sleep quickly and wakes you in the middle of the night, so you sleep worse while believing you sleep better. There is the next day's energy, and that sense of being slightly below yourself without knowing why. There is mood, because alcohol soothes in the moment and anxiety rises again the next day and in the days that follow a heavy drinking episode: that is what explains why people drink precisely when they feel bad.

There is the mental load of the daily negotiation, which wears you down more than the drinking itself. There is the budget. And there is, often, something quieter: the sense of no longer really choosing something you used to do for pleasure.

Recognised approaches other than hypnosis

The starting point is your doctor. A simple screening questionnaire, in consultation, places your situation better than months of self-assessment. A doctor can also rule out what sometimes sits behind drinking that is creeping up: anxiety, a depressive episode, pain, sleep problems.

  • Addiction medicine consultations exist in France and in Quebec, are open to anyone without a label, and work on cutting down as well as on stopping.
  • Psychotherapy, cognitive and behavioural therapies and motivational interviewing in particular, whose contribution is documented in this field.
  • Behavioural self-control training, which is the best-supported psychosocial intervention when the goal is precisely to cut down.
  • Medication, prescribed and monitored by a doctor, including with a view to cutting down.
  • Helplines and official tools, free and anonymous, listed at the foot of this page.
  • Peer support groups, which take various forms: strict abstinence for some, more flexible approaches for others.

Hypnosis sits alongside these approaches, on the side of automatic habits and emotions.

What a hypnosis session can aim at

Let us start with what hypnosis does not do.

It does not set your goal for you. It does not treat dependence and has no place on its own in that situation. It will not make you feel disgusted by alcohol: aversion suggestions are not part of our practice. It does not strengthen your willpower, because willpower is not the lever, and anyone telling you otherwise has not looked at what actually happens at seven in the evening. And it guarantees no result.

What the work does aim at:

  • Undoing the automatic habit. The first drink is rarely a decision: it is a sequence, arriving, putting the keys down, opening the fridge. The work separates the situation from the gesture, through the same learning mechanism that tied them together.
  • Giving the drink back its status as a choice. Not forbidding it: being able to say yes for real, or no for real, at a given moment.
  • Handing to something else what alcohol was doing: unwinding, marking the end of the day, getting through an evening, lightening an emotion.
  • Getting through social situations without it being an ordeal, which is the most common point of failure.
  • Easing what feeds the drinking, end-of-day anxiety and difficulty sleeping in particular.

If your goal is a trial pause rather than a lasting change, the way in is here: Hypnosis for Dry January.

When cutting down is no longer enough

This needs saying plainly, because few sites do: cutting down is not always a workable goal.

Some signs indicate that the goal should be discussed again with a doctor rather than persisted with alone. You set a limit and it does not hold, week after week, despite a sincere intention. The first drink triggers the next ones without the decision still being yours. You drink to take away a physical discomfort. The people around you are worried, however clumsily. You hide it, you play it down, you count out loud differently from how you count in your head.

None of this disqualifies you or boxes you in. It only indicates that the right person to talk to, at this stage, is not a hypnotherapist. We will tell you so if we see it at the first conversation, and that is part of the work.

What the research says

Research on hypnosis and alcohol is scarce and does not allow any conclusion. Better to write that than to dress it up.

A Norwegian randomised trial published in 2019 compared Ericksonian hypnosis sessions with motivational interviewing in people hospitalised for alcohol use disorder. Thirty-one people took part, far too few to settle anything. Both groups reduced their drinking, and the gap in favour of hypnosis at one year did not reach statistical significance. The authors note that only two randomised controlled trials existed at the time on this subject.

A Cochrane review of hypnotherapy for smoking cessation reaches a comparable conclusion: the evidence does not establish superiority over other behavioural approaches, and if a benefit exists, it is small at most.

What is documented in this field is addiction medicine: early identification, brief interventions, motivational interviewing, cognitive and behavioural therapies, self-control training, medication where indicated, and peer support groups. Hypnosis comes as support inside that framework, not instead of it.

An example: Bertrand

A man sitting at home holding a mug, looking into the distance

Bertrand used to wait for his partner, who got home late, so they could have dinner together. Between his own return and her arrival there was an hour and a half. The aperitif took up the start of it, then a second glass, sometimes a third. It had become daily without any decision ever having been made. The first conversation served to check there was no physical dependence, then to look closely at that hour and a half. It was not merely empty: it was crossed by things more cumbersome than boredom, loneliness and thoughts about getting older. The work went there, and on what could fill the start of that evening differently.

> "I thought the problem was the wine. The problem was the dining room between six and half past seven." > Bertrand, name changed

He now describes drinking that has become irregular, without having counted it.

*Every situation is different. Bertrand's path is his own and says nothing about what you will experience.*

How a session on this subject unfolds

The conversation. Your actual habits (when, where, with whom, in what state), your sleep, your medical context and your medication. And the screening questions set out at the top of this page. If they point to dependence, we will refer you to a doctor before going any further, and we will say so plainly.

The objective. Worked out together, in situations rather than in counts. For example: that coming home no longer goes through the fridge, or being able to stop after the first glass at a meal.

The induction. A natural state of focused attention that you already know. You stay conscious, you hear everything, you can speak and you can stop whenever you want.

The work. On this subject, it is mostly about separating a moment of the day from the gesture that attached itself to it, the resources that can do the job the drink was doing, and ease in turning a drink down in company. No aversion suggestion is used.

The debrief and the exercise. A conversation about what you experienced, and a self-hypnosis exercise to take away, often aimed at the precise slot where the automatic habit fires.

The number of sessions is worked out at the first conversation. Sessions work in person and by video alike.

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The first conversation is there precisely to work out whether hypnosis is the right resource for your situation, and a clear answer, including "see your doctor first", is part of the work. Ask us a question or book an appointment. Our practitioners who work in English see people in Montreal, Sherbrooke, Gatineau, Paris and Lille, and by video wherever you are in the world. The number of sessions is worked out at the first conversation.

For the common ground behind all these questions, our page Hypnosis for Alcohol and Drinking Less brings together what hypnosis can and cannot do, and the situations where the first step is a doctor.

Where would you like to consult?

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Sources and references

Helplines

  • Quebec: Drogue : aide et référence, 1 800 265-2626 (or 514 527-2626 in the Montreal area), free, confidential, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
  • Quebec: Info-Social: 811, option 2.
  • France: Alcool info service (in French), 0 980 980 930, anonymous and charged at a local rate, from 8 a.m. to 2 a.m., 7 days a week.
  • Emergencies: 911 in Quebec, 15 or 112 in France.
  • If you are in distress or having suicidal thoughts: 1 866 APPELLE (1 866 277-3553) in Quebec, 24 hours a day; 3114 in France, free and confidential, 24 hours a day.

Sources

  • Santé publique France, *How to reduce the risks of drinking* (in French): the low-risk drinking guidelines in France.
  • Canadian Centre on Substance Use and Addiction, *Canada's Guidance on Alcohol and Health*, 2023.
  • Gouvernement du Québec, *Alcohol and other drug use* (in French).
  • Barnes J., McRobbie H., Dong C. Y., Walker N., Hartmann-Boyce J., *Hypnotherapy for smoking cessation*, Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews, 2019, CD001008.
  • Shestopal I., Bramness J. G., *Effect of Hypnotherapy in Alcohol Use Disorder Compared with Motivational Interviewing: A Randomized Controlled Trial*, Addictive Disorders & Their Treatment, 2019, 18(3), 169-175 (doi 10.1097/ADT.0000000000000170). A trial on thirty-one people, with a non-significant result.

Hypnosis as practised by the members of Solutions Hypnose is a complementary support approach. It is neither a medical act, nor a diagnosis, nor psychotherapy in the regulatory sense, and it in no way replaces a consultation, follow-up or treatment prescribed by a health professional.

Our practitioners do not assess and do not treat mental disorders or illnesses. They never ask for an ongoing treatment to be stopped or changed: that decision rests exclusively with your doctor.

No result can be guaranteed. The testimonials and examples presented on this page describe individual experiences and do not predict what you will experience.

In case of significant distress, unexplained physical symptoms or suicidal thoughts, contact a doctor, emergency services or a helpline without delay.

David Veilleux

Page written by David Veilleux
hypnotherapist and NLP coach
partner at Solutions Hypnose.

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